# I'm attracted to overweight women, and deeply ashamed by the fact **URL:** \ **Category:** Psychology & Sexuality\ **Tags:** post\ **Created:** [October 31, 2026, 2:30pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180 "2026-10-31T14:30:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:30pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/1 "2026-10-31T14:30:49Z")
THIS POST IS NOT A TROLL, I’M SINCERE Hello everyone, it’s been a while ever since I made a post on this forum. I wanted vent about an issue that has been eating me alive recently. I’m attracted to chubby women. Yes you heard that right, I like them big. Sorry about the corny way I put the situation, but I just can’t find other words to describe my problem. It IS funny. After lectures me and some friends go to the campus café for coffee, and we see all girls with various bodyshapes. Some we all find attractive while my friends usually find petites hot. They mock the chubby ones and I laugh alongside as to not feel left out, but deep down the girl we’re mocking would be the hottest thing I’ve ever seen that month. I’m ashamed of myself, I don’t know why I feel this way. I tried “fixing” the problem by subjecting myself to more skinny women, but it didn’t help. I’m lost here, do I just embrace the chubby chaser within? Do I keep it all inside? I thought about it being autogynephilia, as I’m a bit heavy myself (I have around 20% body fat at around 300 lbs, I’m 6’1") but I came to the conclusion that this wasn’t the case. I’m lost, I try avoiding the issue but every time I go out I see these women built like fertility statues with bellies jiggling and I go mad inside. I function well within society, but I’m rotting from the inside. This is not a cry for help, I’ll live. I don’t think I’ll ever find love in this world regardless of my preferences so it’s not taking a toll that big on me. I just wanted to rant. Thanks for reading and sorry if I’ve bothered anyone. TL;DR - Title Edit: spelling ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:35pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/2 "2026-10-31T14:35:08Z")
Clarification, by overweight I mean chubby at most. Think 180 to 350 lbs. The “people” I see on my 600 lbs life disgust me. There is a difference, physically anyway. Also, I hate the concept of being fat. It’s hedonistic, disgusting, and a literal insult in God’s face. ---
**Author:** ![IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/indigowizard/32/367_2.png) [@IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/u/IndigoWizard)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:37pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/3 "2026-10-31T14:37:32Z")
Honestly, I would just not be ashamed about it. But then again, I’m a furry. ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:39pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/4 "2026-10-31T14:39:17Z")
We’re both fucked up in the head huh, God help us ---
**Author:** ![IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/indigowizard/32/367_2.png) [@IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/u/IndigoWizard)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:40pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/5 "2026-10-31T14:40:33Z")
Yeah but I’m worse, cause I see well-rounded black women (ones you’d probably call ‘chubby’, and I wouldn’t blame you) at the supermarket and I’m internally salivating ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:42pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/6 "2026-10-31T14:42:41Z")
I like fat bitches too but I draw the line at bestiality. I could see the hottest black woman out there and my penis would literally deflate. Been that way ever since I was a teen, even before I started noticing the socioeconomic factors. ---
**Author:** ![IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/indigowizard/32/367_2.png) [@IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/u/IndigoWizard)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:50pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/7 "2026-10-31T14:50:07Z")
Was about to get mad because I thought you were calling my yiffery ‘bestiality’ but then I realized you were talking about negroes, lol Funny how that works. ---
**Author:** ![buddy\_vestigial](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/buddy_vestigial/32/871_2.png) [@buddy\_vestigial](https://briarfray.org/u/buddy_vestigial)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 2:54pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/8 "2026-10-31T14:54:43Z")
Were you ever in your life not fat for a prolonged period of time? ---
**Author:** ![Bardamu](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/bardamu/32/777_2.png) [@Bardamu](https://briarfray.org/u/Bardamu)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 3:00pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/9 "2026-10-31T15:00:35Z")
You like what you like but keep in mind that what appeals to the eye and what feels good can be very different. ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 3:02pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/10 "2026-10-31T15:02:22Z")
I avoid discussing the state of being a furry, my opinions will not match yours. Nothing productive will come out of a potential discussion. Your existence doesn’t harm me and mine doesn’t harm yours. ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 3:04pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/11 "2026-10-31T15:04:17Z")
I’ve dropped to 175 lbs around senior year high school. I had lots of time, ambition and surprisingly the necessary discipline. I worked out 6 days a week, sometimes swapping rest day for an extra leg day. I attended a vocational school so I **had** to stay fit. College took those factors away from me. I lost my ambition. The hatred, I became content with mediocrity. ---
**Author:** ![IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/indigowizard/32/367_2.png) [@IndigoWizard](https://briarfray.org/u/IndigoWizard)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 3:30pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/12 "2026-10-31T15:30:45Z")
Fairs ---
**Author:** ![buddy\_vestigial](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/buddy_vestigial/32/871_2.png) [@buddy\_vestigial](https://briarfray.org/u/buddy_vestigial)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 3:46pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/13 "2026-10-31T15:46:31Z")
Were you into overweight girls then? ---
**Author:** ![Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/egozilla/32/784_2.png) [@Egozilla](https://briarfray.org/u/Egozilla)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2026, 11:51pm UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/14 "2026-10-31T23:51:43Z")
Sadly yes ---
**Author:** ![johnnymcivor](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/johnnymcivor/32/6_2.png) [@johnnymcivor](https://briarfray.org/u/johnnymcivor)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2026, 12:13am UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/15 "2026-11-01T00:13:48Z")
Watch the videos on the Reintegrative Therapy site. You identify the peak moment of the fantasy and then peel back the emotional layers. That’s how they reverse same-sex attraction. ---
**Author:** ![LostSaxon](https://briarfray.org/user_avatar/briarfray.org/lostsaxon/32/778_2.png) [@LostSaxon](https://briarfray.org/u/LostSaxon)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2026, 1:10am UTC](https://briarfray.org/t/im-attracted-to-overweight-women-and-deeply-ashamed-by-the-fact/1180/16 "2026-11-01T01:10:12Z")
More than likely you are like most men who are genetically hardwired to see a certain amount of fat in the right places as a sign of healthy and fertility, and this drive has been hijacked and corrupted to attract you to obese women for whatever reason. The solution is not to just fixate on skinny women, but try and find the healthier ideal you have at the center of your polluted thoughts.