I saw this article today about a married gay man.
What strikes me is the fact that he was able to have love - seriously, not ironically, true love - with his wife.
I’d suggest that most gay men aren’t really gay, they just have a fetish/obsession with men, and a kind of desire to maintain a harmless platonic style of relationship with women since women offer them some needed soothing support. They especially need the soothing support because they are damaged in the head - neurotic and traumatized.
The link to the article is below: