Female Feelings

Drew this, “Lovestruck Woman.” The domestication of man was likely influenced by the preferences of women. The ideal man is tall, masculine, and very social. He fits an archetype (mechanic, hunter, soldier, doctor) which has a unique power dynamic to the woman. The woman establishes her own relation to the man through self reflection (quizzes, horoscopes, Myers Briggs, etc). From this she understands what character she is in the “erotic romance novel.”

When the first cult leaders established the first mass movements, the tribe went from a population of ~150 people to the tens of thousands. Suddenly women had a very wide range of options. They got pickier and pickier, until we got to the dense, urban internet societies that we have today. Now there are way too many options, and women feel distressed. They are not sure if they will ever find their soul mate.

Notice that the background of the drawing is chaotic. This is because a woman is in chaos without a man. A girl does not develop a confident, aggressive temperament, she merely perfects the one that she was born with. Despite her professed independence, she is very confused, and just wants someone to give her directions.

It should also be noted that women don’t have to prove anything to men. Women are already spectacular, just being what they are. A woman who feels the need to “prove” “what’s inside” has simply never been validated for what she already is. She cannot derive power from her essence, and thus she sets out on a goal, she ties her identity up in projects, in her career, her interests, her activism etc etc.

Well what should she do once she derives power from her essence?

Things I find important include family-related skills. So teach the child important things.
Having practice in her own understanding of what is fun, which interests bear fruits and so on, could be beneficial. She will have to prove her worth to some degree. And that worth is this: She can transmit her potential to something kinetic. In line, she has power in her essence, but she must transmit it successfully to be an interest in a good mate.

We men must do the same.