I see. I’m sorry to hear that.
i can agree with this sort of systematic shirking of wants and needs. i suppose its mostly subcomscious.
favors are often a gift horse and come with strings attached — if not a company of trojans..
and on empathy im far too jaded and tired to be very supportive. and questions asked do not go wholly answered, frequently.
reasons why being molested as a child should be selfevident and intuitively obvious, whould rather not spend any time on the subject